The Reveal, Part 2

posted May 17th, 2019, 7:50 am


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May 17th, 2019, 7:50 am

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At long last, we see the other party show their new look to their satisfaction. ^_^

And yes: "their". As in, singular they/them/their pronouns (they never said boy mode; just that they explicitly weren't in girl mode). Ky is feeling more androgynous. So switching from one polar extreme gender expression to the other, therefore might not necessarily have helped them right now. But changing into the tux, while keeping their earrings and heels (not yet shown), offers more relief for the kid. Even without the binder. (I realize this might not necessarily be optimal for everyone in Ky's position, but for them, right now, this is what they needed.)

I know Ky hasn't exhibited androgyny too often in the story, but this has been known to happen. They described the situation a while back if you need a refresher. ^_^
http://rainlgbt.smackjeeves.com/comics/1988634/kys-fluidity/

Now, of course most of Ky's friends are just glad to see them so genuinely happy. Poor kid's been struggling all night up until now, and surely Rain and friends were worried. But then there's Drew who has a struggle of his own to work through.

Whatever happens next, Drew's moment of truth is nearly upon us. Thoughts? Will something finally click for him, or...?


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June 17th, 2019, 12:45 am

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May 17th, 2019, 8:04 am

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is drew ever gonna learn? :/

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May 17th, 2019, 8:07 am

Ninjacookies

Oh drew...

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This boy is about to do something really stupid isn't he...

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May 17th, 2019, 8:08 am

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I know a lot of people may react badly to Drew's reaction... but I can kind of understand it. I mean, it's like Rain explained before. Drew has been conditioned by the people around him to like girls and date girls, not boys or androgynous or genderfluid people. He is scared about how others will react and treat him about dating somebody that identifies as a boy.

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May 17th, 2019, 9:05 am

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@Fastgirl01: right now it's androgyonous, ky is feeling like they are both genders right now, or he is just fine with having some things being femminine about him, being quite a feminine guy myself i give him/them all kudos they deserve

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May 17th, 2019, 8:11 am

Sanguiches (Guest)

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Well, nice knowing you Drew

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May 17th, 2019, 8:20 am

Smokey (Guest)

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& Drew shows time & again incapable of seeing beyond himself (I know he's been trying to understand, with homophobia drilled into his head & lack of knowledge abt dysphoria, but Ky /did/ warn him)
I do hope the last two panels are misleading, and he's actually going to say something nice,, (or at least with good intent)
i'd find it very hard to forgive him if he ruins this special night for them, especially with how many chances Ky has given him.

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May 17th, 2019, 8:26 am

161616

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I have to fall down on Drew's side here. Ky is essentially outing Drew without his permission. If Drew did that to Ky, we'd all be up in arms, and for good reason.

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May 17th, 2019, 8:45 am

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@161616: They really aren't, though? Anyone who's seen Ky in a dress or sees the heels is just going to assume they're a girl dressing masc. Cis people generally don't assume other people aren't cis.

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May 17th, 2019, 12:35 pm

bassofthe

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@161616: "Outing" Drew as what, exactly? As knowing a masc-presenting AFAB person?

Truly, what a horror.

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May 17th, 2019, 12:49 pm

Unknown (Guest)

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@161616:

You do realize there are plenty of girls (cis and otherwise) who'd prefer wearing a tux from the get-go right? Who would also feel really fricking uncomfortable with all the compliments if they're stuck in a dress.

I had this happen at least twice in my teen and early adult years. Two of which I was bullied by family into thinking I was "selfish" for wanting to be in something comfortable that I'd have to wear most of the day. Like somehow wearing pants would ruin the day for everyone. Like I owed it someone else to look a certain way even if it made me unhappy and uncomfortable.

And it freaking sucked.

My point is that Ky isn't outing Drew in any way. There a lot of reasons for someone (guy, girl, fluid, whomever) to switch clothes. It's just as easy for people to assume Ky was a cis girl who wanted to change out of a dress. Ky even has heels and no binder. Not saying Drew should tell people this - a "it's none of your business" is the only reply needed if asked.

All Ky doing is changing into something more comfortable for them. They don't owe it to Drew to look a certain way for his sake. Ky even warned him of this exact thing. He doesn't have to continue hanging out with them. If he wasn't prepared for it, then he never should have come with them.

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May 17th, 2019, 3:39 pm

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@161616:

Not really? If Drew wanted to keep dating Ky, he should've been prepared for whenever they start feeling like they're any gender other than a girl.

It wasn't Ky's choice to exit girl mode at prom. Plus the way Drew is reacting gives off the impression he's making it all about him rather than giving a damn about how Ky felt.

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May 18th, 2019, 9:01 pm

Leah (Guest)

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@161616: What's there to "out"? Drew strongly IDs as straight. In fact that's part of the problem in their relationship, he insists on treating Ky as a girl who sometimes likes to dress up like a boy.

Ky may be embarrassing Drew in front of his friends, but that's a different issue.

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May 17th, 2019, 9:15 am

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@takanobaka I agree that Ky's sudden change of clothes will probably be taken by the people who have seen them today as a girl dressing masc, there's also the fact that Ky has shown up to Emily's Halloween party in boy mode and was seen by a lot of people, who will now be primed to assume Ky is a feminine guy, especially if they see them at a glance/from a distance
also @161616 if Drew's that concerned about "being outed" he doesn't have to continue to spend time with Ky in public/tonight. that's not an ideal outcome especially for their relationship (although I'm not optimistic about that regardless) but saying "I can't be seen flirting with someone in a tux right now" is gonna be far less hurtful than whatever I suspect Drew is actually about to say. (Drew's not going to think of that, he's going to continue to insist on proving he's straight by having a girl on his arm and that literally can't happen)

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May 17th, 2019, 9:16 am

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anyway i L o v e Ky's look right now. that's the same kind of androgyny I've been aiming for recently

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May 17th, 2019, 9:19 am

Trassa

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aaaaaaaa

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May 17th, 2019, 9:31 am

notall2gether

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DREW SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH RIGHT NOW

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May 17th, 2019, 10:06 am

Nesagsar

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Well now we know who Maria is going to have to kill tonight.

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May 17th, 2019, 10:10 am

April (Guest)

Incoming!

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That very loud thud you hear is the other shoe dropping.

Now taking bookings for Ky's new ship.

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May 17th, 2019, 10:10 am

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Really Drew -.- we all warned you

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May 17th, 2019, 10:29 am

DXMarina (Guest)

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Welp, goodbye Drew.

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May 17th, 2019, 10:54 am

RabidRabbitArmy

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God damn it drew, don't mess this up!

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May 17th, 2019, 12:03 pm

Izai (Guest)

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Hot damn. I'm not putting money on how this will go.

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May 17th, 2019, 12:47 pm

Sanguich (Guest)

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My gut reaction this morning was 'dammit drew, here we go again,' but as I've been thinking about it, my view has changed.

If we boil it down, the problem with Drew is he isn't understanding how Ky feels, and maybe isn't trying to. If he cared about them, you'd hope he could put his personal feelings aside and at least try to empathise with them.

But on the other side... did none of them seriously think he would have this problem? Did Ky even consider his reaction when they decided to go through with this plan? There's a group of people here who all understand and support Ky, but Drew is on the outside, and it seems like his feelings don't matter.

He SHOULD be concerned/supportive of his date, but if it were me? I would be feeling kind of invisible right now. I can totally see Drew feeling ignored/disrespected. I can see him thinking that Ky is having ONE bad day, and as such he should take the blow and have god knows home many days of being teased/bullied at school just so they can feel better for a few hours.

If I really thought there'd be serious repercussions with my peers, who I cannot avoid for five days a week, I would feel like you should've at least ASKED me. And if they didn't ask because they knew I wouldn't go for it... that just hammers home the feeling that you don't care about me.

Ky doesn't like being called cute, and I feel bad for them, but what are they going to call Drew tomorrow, and possibly every day after?

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May 17th, 2019, 1:02 pm

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@Sanguich:

My issue is I'm pretty sure Ky warned Drew of this exact thing when they had the big fight though. Drew was told this might happen and how uncomfortable Ky would feel if forced to be in a dress when in guy-mode.

So I feel like he was given a chance to expect this might happen. And this might be why no one considered Drew's reaction - because he was already told it could happen. And the fact that this was the subject of Drew and Ky's fight makes me doubt Drew forgot he was warned.

He could have prepared for it and looked for a way to meet Ky half-way if this happened. Instead, it feels like he just ignored the fight and assumed everything was "fine" because Ky was in a dress.

Edit: Found the bit where Ky warned him It's the page titled "Shame" in the archives. :(

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May 17th, 2019, 4:20 pm

Sanguich (Guest)

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@Unknown: Okay wow, I forgot all about that. Why did they even do this again? They were doomed from the start. Even when he says he needs to think about it and Ky can go without him, this still seems like a horrible idea.

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May 17th, 2019, 1:44 pm

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@Sanguich: This is coming from a nonbinary person, so I am a bit biased to support Ky in this situation. But really, I always put a trans person's dysphoria and mental health over a cis person's confusion. It's not as though Drew is the only person going through social problems in their grade (see Maria and Emily), and he only has a month of school left, much less than the others did. Plus, he's not even dating Ky. He's not the only person who came to prom with a friend, so he could use that to brush off accusations of being gay.

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May 17th, 2019, 4:51 pm

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@nerdy-nb: That's fair. I didn't mean to sound like Ky's problems were less important. And yeah, Drew shouldn't be THIS surprised, and Ky specifically warned this might happen. And he really should care enough to try and figure out why they're going to such lengths to do this.

That said, from his perspective, Ky said they felt bad, he went to get them a drink, came back and they're in a suit. I can't really blame him for feeling at least a little blindsided. He really SHOULDN'T be, but he is. It seems like he just saw Ky in a dress, thought everything was gonna be fine and he doesn't need to worry. It probably would've helped if they'd told him in advance and heard any objections first. I get that Ky's problem is serious, and Drew doesn't have a right to say how they should be presenting, but does that mean his feelings are meaningless?

Everyone's attitude towards Drew in this chapter has been really dismissive. Nobody talked to him and thought, gee, I wonder if this is gonna be a problem, they just kinda sigh and say we already talked about this. I get that they're sick of explaining it to him, but I kinda get the feeling that none the the main cast like him, want him to be there, or care what he thinks. So... why is he there again?

If Drew can't handle this, he shouldn't have come with Ky. If everyone else is sick of helping him handle it, they shouldn't have LET him come. It's like... what did they THINK was going to happen? The only answer I can come up with is that nobody thought about Drew at all. He's just a tag-along who seemed mostly harmless until they find out how much he cares about his peer's opinions. I have no doubt that Drew is gonna say some regrettable things on the next page, but I still can't help but feel a LITTLE bad for the guy.

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May 17th, 2019, 1:11 pm

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We were so cloooossseeee

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May 17th, 2019, 1:52 pm

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Damn it, Drew. You had one job.

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May 17th, 2019, 2:07 pm

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Everyone who wants to throw Drew out of a window raise your hand. Of course, the window would be on a non harmful level and he would fall over manure like the Tannens in every Back to the Future movie.

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May 17th, 2019, 2:15 pm

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*cocks rotten tomato in my grip and sets my sights on Drew's head. Target locked in and ready for the yeet*

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May 17th, 2019, 3:06 pm

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I'm torn. On one hand, I see where Drew is coming from. He's freaking out, no one really had a proper discussion and just assumed he'd really be okay-ish with it if they badgered him with enough info on Ky and pronouns.

On the other hand, he's the one who had been telling his friends he might be into guys, he might not be, on and off since Halloween, so hopefully someone points that out and that his other friends will just accept it as "Drew's being weird again", though possibly show concern that he's dragged his "girlfriend" into the weirdness. Possibly even accuse him of making her dress up like a boy because that honestly feels like something they'd do rather than accept the idea of a girl dressing up like a boy...then enter Maria dressed up in a tux or something to point out that isn't true and anyone who disagrees answers to her fist...I have more but I'm half worried my subsequent guesses would either be right, spoiling it, or be too optimistic and make the following fallout all that much more potentially depressing.

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May 17th, 2019, 3:29 pm

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I see lots of anger against Drew here, but honestly, I can't blame the kid there. He was not ready to go public. He has not even figured himself out yet.

I pretty much stand on the side of the person who compared it to being outed. And in this environment, the social consequences of Ky being themselves will be pretty bad for Drew. Ky had other routes. They could have just left. The little group could have deserted the prom night. Or just Ky and Drew, the two of them. Figured it out as a clothe-swapping couple. Or at least talked to them before proceeding with the plan (not asking for permission, not negociating, just let him be a part of the discussion).

Ky did not even consider Drew's situation. He is right in saying there was something egocentric in their behavior.
Manichean wars quickly get boring. Grey morality, no good guys' vs bad guys bs, that's the best kind of storytelling! Some nuance!

So as bad as it may be, I am not taking a side yet. Sure, Drew talks from a position of cis privilege. It does not mean his grievances should be totally discarded, especially if he and Ky are going to have a healthy, fullfilling relationship.

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May 17th, 2019, 8:50 pm

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@Belgarel: I know but Drew still had no right telling them something like that! He even said "couldn't handle a dress? Isn't that extreme?" He is acting rude and selfish and doesn't care that Ky was deeply hurting. Also if a "girl" is wearing tux,that doesn't make them a "Boy". Some girls like to be tomboyish. Honestly, if it's Rudy, most won't even question it and if they do, they could just answer why they did it as "for fun" or "Rudy thought it'd be funny" or such. Also, even if Ky explained about how they were feeling, Drew wouldn't be too happy at prom without a date. Though what you say is true, no one's entirely right or wrong, Drew IS being an asshole, when Ky has explained themselves (though they shouldn't have to) about why it hurts them when Drew say shit like that or calls them "a girl". Hell, even Gavin explained why it's rude! And egocentric isn't exactly the best term for Ky,because they were deeply hurting, and didn't expect Drew to react so harshly when they present themselves because they have explained how horrible it feels when not presenting correctly and people misgendering them, and remember, Ky said they WOULD NOT be someone's shame again.
Though, again, I agree neither were fully in the right or wrong, Drew could word his point a little better then "MY REPUTATION!!" again making Ky feel like someone's secret shame. No offense though, I'm just trying to bring my point to the table! :)

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May 18th, 2019, 10:19 am

Belgarel (Guest)

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@hereandqueer: There is no denying that Drew is being an asshole here.
So is Ky.

Wow, that was a bit extreme, wan't it? But as I said, I don't want to pick a side yet. Not on this one.
If you look at the bigger picture, sure, Drew should have put more effort into understanding Ky and accepting them and the social consequences of dating them. He should have been a strong, confident man who does not care about bigots and their silly opinion, while we are at it. I can definitely blame him for his overall slowness and reluctance at understanding gender fuildity, and his lack of (masculine) strenght.

However,
when I say Ky was being egocentric, I do not mean it in a judgemntal way, like "selfish". Egocentrism is being focused on one's problems, which is obviously a good thing to a certain extent. The fact that those problems were real and valid, and hurting and all is, though true, irrelevant in this regard.
And "not expecting Drew to react so harshly" is precisely part of this egocentrism. Not paying attention to the other party, or how you might hurt them, is being egocentric. Ky and Drew are both being just that, which is not good in a couple.

Imo, Ky's problems are more valid than Drew, and he fails to see that. However, that's just it: my opinion. I am too quick to forget how important it is (especially for dumb teenagers) to be... accepted by people around you? And to accept yourself and... people you love?
Shoot, Drew's problems are really not that far from LGBTQA+ issues, if you word it like that.

Now anyways, as a couple they need to talk. They have trouble understanding each other. Having a violent dispute might help, or it might ruin things. Atm I can't say which one it will be.

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May 20th, 2019, 5:17 am

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@Belgarel: You keep forgetting one thing:

What Ky is doing isn't hurting Drew.

Dressing in a way that makes them comfortsble does not hurt anyone else.

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May 17th, 2019, 3:55 pm

Adama (Guest)

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Changing the subject ... I thought Ruby needed a hair clip on the previous page but didn't want to say anything. Glad Ky came through.

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May 17th, 2019, 7:18 pm

IXman

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I read this and thought: Drew, Drew, Drew, you were doing so well! YOU THEN FUCKED IT UP DREW YOU FUCKED IT UP! Dammit, I was liking Drew too.

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May 17th, 2019, 7:29 pm

Jaina (Guest)

Darn.

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I hate that I called it in the last post's comments. I didn't want to be right.

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May 17th, 2019, 7:36 pm

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YOU FOOL

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May 17th, 2019, 7:58 pm

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I kinda figured Drew would be a dick about this. What I hope will happen within the next few pages is that Maria will come, reunite with Chanel, and then slap some sense into Drew.

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May 17th, 2019, 8:01 pm

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You'd think after the rest of the dialogue on that page Drew would have maybe gotten a cue to just not say anything if he had nothing nice to say...this is going to go as poorly as we expect, I bet.

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May 17th, 2019, 8:32 pm

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WTAF DREW!?!?!

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Well, before Maria gets here and fucking kills Drew for what he's about to say, Drew, ya fuck! THEY HAVE EXPLAINED TIME AND TIME AGAIN WHAT A DIFFICULT SITUATION THEY'RE IN!!! AND THEM WEARING A TUX DOESN'T MEAN THEY OUTED YOU!! A LOT OF PEOPLE WEAR FUCKIN TUXES, EVEN IF THEY'RE ACTUALLY GIRLS THAT NIGHT!!! AND I FUCKIN CALLED IT!! I KNEW DREW WAS GONNA BE A SELFISH FUCK AND COMPLAIN "oh, so you change so you don't feel like you're gonna die and feel horrible all night? WeLl WhAT AbOuT MEEEEEEEEE!!??!" Ma gawd Maria's gonna beat your ass! And Ky's a little fireball too, so even if they do run off cryin, you better believe your likely to get slapped first!!! DREW, FUCK YOU!!NGHHBGFGBHFDGD

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May 17th, 2019, 9:18 pm

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Oh, Drew :( I get that you're just a dumb kid, but you're being such a dick right now...

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May 18th, 2019, 6:53 am

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Honestly I get *why* people are siding with Drew, but I completely disagree with them. Drew is not being outed. I highly doubt the other students are gonna look at Ky swapping clothes with *Rudy*(/Ruby) of all people and think "hmm, this Ky person must actually be a guy!". That just... isn't how ignorant cis people tend to see things. Worst case scenario, they'll think it's some "weird" thing relating to Drew's past waffling over his orientation, but I'd bet actual money that most if not all of Drew's friends won't actually give a damn. Based on Devon and Holly's reaction to Rain's deadname, they'll rationalize it as something that fits their prejudices and move on. The only people I can see MAYBE making a stink about it are Rob & possibly some of the chaperones. But even then, they're probably going to think "Ky is a cis girl who found the dress uncomfortable and agreed to swap with Rudy, who's weird anyway" (or at worst, "Drew convinced them to swap clothes because he's confused and dragging his 'girlfriend' nto his weirdness", as another commenter suggested.)

Butno, Drew is not being outed, and his outrage is not justified, ESPECIALLY given how many times he's fucked this up in the past. He's on like his fourth chance right now. Quite frankly, at this point, no, his opinion on this DOESN'T matter. He's hurt Ky too many times now to get any say in how they dress.

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May 18th, 2019, 7:54 am

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GODDAMIT DREW

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May 18th, 2019, 8:33 am

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At this point I just think drew is a full blown asshole, the amount of chances he's had and the level of bullshit that has had to be put up with is just ridiculous, he's just a selfish little jerk

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May 18th, 2019, 7:14 pm

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@Belgarel: After all the times Drew has deeply hurt Ky by ignoring their feelings & not listening to them, i wouldn't be so quick to criticize Ky for putting their own wellbeing first here.

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May 19th, 2019, 12:44 pm

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You know, all of us are probably thinking ill of Drew here...
But there's also the possibility his reaction here is less about Ky taking off the dress and more about how they had yelled at him for outing them to his friends, but now they're essentially outing him.

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May 20th, 2019, 7:28 am

bassofthe

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@LoganAura: Outing him as what, exactly?

Ky changing clothes does not "out" anyone or hurt them in any way.

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May 19th, 2019, 2:02 pm

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Oh high school...

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May 19th, 2019, 2:21 pm

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aw SHIT, here we go again :/

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May 19th, 2019, 2:38 pm

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@nerdy-nb it's a bit reductive to call Drew's just "confusion." This is confusion and embarrassment and fear and homophobic anger. It is completely routine for kids to do uncool and unhealthy stuff in order to avoid bullying, shaming, rumors, etc. High school isn't just scary for LGBTQ+ kids, it's scary for their family, friends, allies, and associates, as well as anyone else deemed lame, uncool, stupid, slutty, nerdy, weird, or a narc.
His isn't meant to say Drew's actions here are okay, they're really messed up. But how do you expect your average straight-passing middle-of-the-road teenage boy to react? Drew is realistically written regardless of how triggered some of you are. To write him as mature and understanding at this point would be forced, shitty writing. So congrats Lynn, you wrote this character right. Not evil, but flawed. Trying to be open-minded, but overwhelmed by habit and fear. Selfish, like most teenagers. Realistic af.

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May 19th, 2019, 9:56 pm

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Welp time to murder drew

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May 19th, 2019, 10:15 pm

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Someone's Butt...

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...really wants kicking.

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May 20th, 2019, 12:46 am

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@plasticwrap really? "triggered"? what are you, a fourchanner? nobody's saying Lynn's writing is bad. the character is being criticized as a person, not the writing. get over yourself pal.

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May 20th, 2019, 6:50 am

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Okay, I've had it. So much so that I started an account to post, just so I'm not hiding behind a guest name anymore. ALL OF THE KIDS HAVE BEEN SELFISH AND SELF-CENTERED HERE, NOT JUST DREW. To wit:

Drew: he's been awfully public about something he claims he doesn't want people knowing about. That said, he's found out how some people stand on this issue (Rob just bags on him, Devon and Holly are surprisingly not bothered by it). I'm cutting him some slack on misgendering Ky, only because it's tough to get used to, and it's only been about 2-ish months for him (curse you, webcomic time). Also, we don't know what his home life is like; his parents could be raging homophobes like the Strongwells. Also, should these antics result in some form of punishment, Drew's likely the only one who'll get any such thing; Ky's not a St. Hallvard student, and Rudy's probably got diplomatic immunity at this point. So, yeah . . .

Ky: has been rather selfish about their relationship with Drew the entire time. They seem to expect him to get the situation immediately (I don't understand it all that well myself, and I've been researching it since starting this comic) while not really trying to help him figure out his side of it at all. I get why they'd want that (Heather only really accepted them recently, and their mother . . . yeah, that), but they've only been seeing Drew since mid-to-late-February, AT THE EARLIEST (need italics on my phone, looks like I'm yelling). That's nowhere near enough time to expect Drew to learn how to properly gender Ky. And so now, they've forced Drew into an "out your confused-ass self or die" scenario, which would cause all of the "Drew's just heartless, triggered, and cruel" people to yeet rocks at the perpetrator if it was done to, say, Rain or Ana. Call me a liar on that last point, I dare you.

The RainCloud (yes? no?): Rain's the ONLY member of the group that's offered more advice to Drew than just "don't overthink this" or "just choose what you are, dammit!" (side note, Rudy's a right barmy little git about a lot of things). Actually, let's look at Rudy for a second, because he's the one out of this particular group that said Drew's costume looked gay at the Halloween party (yes, Rob said it first. Rudy sure as hell didn't help with his "I thought you were actually hitting on me because of the costume nonsense"). How is it that the kid had to go through his own struggles with his sexuality, for which he got his ass kicked a lot, can be so unsympathetic to another person who's having those problems now? In general, I'll grant that Rain's entire crew has no obligation towards Drew (though giving him advice so he doesn't hurt Ky would have been nice), but he's interacted with Rudy, Rain, and Gavin on this, and Rain's the only one who's had any serious discussion with him about it; no wonder he feels like everyone's just expecting him to just roll with whatever.

I'd like to see DrY be something that survives this chapter, but all of the cast will have to pull together on this one. Sadly, I don't see that happening.

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May 20th, 2019, 7:35 am

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@He Who Abides: "I'm cutting him some slack on misgendering Ky, only because it's tough to get used to"

Ky has been openly nonbinary since before they met. There is nothing to get used to.

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May 20th, 2019, 8:08 am

He Who Abides

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but Drew's only been aware that Ky is non-binary for a little over two months. That, and Drew almost assuredly has never known that someone is non-binary or transgender before now. You can't expect someone to magically know how pronouns work right off the bat.

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May 22nd, 2019, 4:07 am

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@He Who Abides: They're high schoolers. Pronouns are covered in primary school.

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May 22nd, 2019, 1:20 pm

plasticwrap

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@Guest I haven't been on 4chan in months, tyvm

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May 24th, 2019, 8:43 am

BUTTERSKY11

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Aw shit here we go again

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